부부 관계를 잘 유지하기 위해선 남편과 아내가 서로 싫어하는 것을 하지 말아야겠지만 부부 관계가 잘 성장하기 위해선 배우자가 좋아하는 것을 내가 싫어해도 하는 것입니다.
“You are the man!” “Nathan then said to David, ‘You are the man! …’” (2 Samuel 12:7a). I often find myself realizing things belatedly when reflecting on my own actions. Of course, one of those realizations is the grace of God. Only after some time has passed do I come to realize God's guidance, assistance, and provision. Another thing I tend to realize belatedly is that I have spoken beyond what was appropriate. Especially after engaging in various conversations with someone, upon later reflection, I recognize that the content of the conversation applies to me as well, and I realize that I spoke as if I were discussing someone else. For instance, not too long ago, after a church meeting, during dinner, I had a conversation with a few pastors. Even in reviewing the...