부부 관계를 잘 유지하기 위해선 남편과 아내가 서로 싫어하는 것을 하지 말아야겠지만 부부 관계가 잘 성장하기 위해선 배우자가 좋아하는 것을 내가 싫어해도 하는 것입니다.
Thanksgiving in suffering “Then Jonah prayed to the LORD his God from the stomach of the fish, … But I will sacrifice to You With the voice of thanksgiving That which I have vowed I will pay Salvation is from the LORD” (Jonah 2:1, 9). Suffering is painful and distressful. And when we are in pain and distress, we usually groan in wounds and tears. We even make a grudge. We blame others. We have to blame somebody for it. We blame a situation too, not just the people. We blame the people and the situation, but we do not blame ourselves. The reason is that if we are so painful and distressful, we tend to become more selfish. And if we are selfish, we will not only able to think that suffering has come because of ourselves, but we cannot. That’s why we cannot...