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  Marital Conflict for New Wives Article by  Abigail Dodds Regular Contributor The early months and years of marriage are a time of significant change. Marriage involves at least one or both people moving to join as husband and wife under one roof. A young wife changes her name to show she now belongs to her husband as the two form a new family. Both the new husband and new wife are stepping into new callings they have never had before! With all the change and transition, it shouldn’t surprise us when conflicts, disagreements, or misunderstandings arise. If you’re a young woman preparing for marriage, you need not fret that marital conflict will spoil the first years, nor should you assume that you and your husband won’t deal with any bumps or tense times. Rather, you can prepare to be the kind of wife who handles conflicts with maturity, charity, and inner peace. Which is to say, you can prepare to be a  Christian  wife. He’s Not You The profound mystery of mar...

Causes of church conflict     “Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith;   …   Be of the same mind toward one another; do not be haughty in mind, but associate with the lowly Do not be wise in your own estimation” ( Romans 12 : 6, 16).     How should we view church disputes?   Why are churches that should be loved fighting each other?   What are the causes of the conflict in the church?   One of the causes is the failure to acknowledge diversity.   In other words, there is conflict in the church because it does not accept the fact that there are people with various gifts in the church.   Often when we look at a couple's dispute, we say: 'You and I are just different, but not wrong.'   However, when I actually think about the relationship between husband and wife, it seems that there are...

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