부부 관계를 잘 유지하기 위해선 남편과 아내가 서로 싫어하는 것을 하지 말아야겠지만 부부 관계가 잘 성장하기 위해선 배우자가 좋아하는 것을 내가 싫어해도 하는 것입니다.
Bitterness
"Bitterness is the result of not forgiving others. If you are bitter at someone, it means that you haven't truly forgiven that person. ... Bitterness is the result of dwelling too long on a hurt.
Evidences of Bitterness
1. Difficulty in resolving
conflicts
2. Acts of vengeance
3. Withdrawal
4. Outbursts of anger
5. Biting sarcasm
6. Condescending communication
7. Criticism
8. Suspicion and distrust
9. Intolerance
10. Hypersensitivity
11. Impatience
12. Disrespect
13. Rebellion against authority
14. Misuse of authority
15. Depression
16. Doubts regarding salvation
17. Remembering with great
specificity the details of an offense."
[Lou Priolo,
"Bitterness"]
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