"고난의 유익은 그 고난을 통하여 내가 하나님 보시기에 그릇행하였다는 것을 깨닫는 것과 하나님의 법을 배우게 된 것과 이제부터 하나님의 말씀을 지키게 된 것입니다(시 119:67, 71). 이러한 깨달음(나의 죄)과 배움(하나님의 말씀)과 지킴( 말씀 순종)이 없는 고난은 무익합니다." 1. 깨달음: 교만함(시119:69), 그릇 행함(67절), 마음의 살찜과 기름덩이(70절) [마음에 지방을 제거하라!: https://blog.naver.com/kdicaprio74/150112959844] 2. 배움: 자녀들의 위기를 통해 저는 선하신 주님께서(68절) 저를 선대하사(65절) 가르쳐주신(68절) 시편 63편 3절 말씀과 베드로전서 5장 10절 말씀을 배우게 되었습니다(71절). [20년 전 이 아빠의 품에 잠든 사랑하는 첫째 아기 주영이를 추모하면서 ... : https://blog.naver.com/kdicaprio74/221262767368] [금년 2019년 한 해를 영원히 과거로 보내기에 앞서 ...: https://blog.naver.com/kdicaprio74/221756284213] 3. 지킴: https://youtu.be/i6TfokavYN4?si=P1E4vvk_bnPOvabx
About marital conflicts …
(2)
A.
One of the
things we learn through marital conflict is how to complement each other’s
differences and create a win-win situation.
B.
The
beneficial aspects of marital conflict are:
1. It reveals each other’s differences.
2. It helps us see each other’s weaknesses.
3. It uncovers each other’s sinful tendencies.
4. It allows us to learn about each other’s
background and upbringing.
5. It helps us understand each other’s habits,
personalities, and values.
6. It shows us what each of us wants from the
other.
7. It teaches us what words and actions should be
avoided in our relationship.
C. To make marital conflict beneficial:
1. We must acknowledge and gradually accept each
other’s differences.
2. While observing each other's weaknesses, we
should intentionally focus on and appreciate each other's strengths,
complimenting and encouraging one another, and making efforts to complement
each other's weaknesses.
3. As we recognize each other's sinful tendencies,
we must rely on the power of Jesus Christ's death on the cross and His precious
blood, forgiving one another as the Lord has forgiven us.
4. By understanding each other’s backgrounds and
learning about each other’s parents, we should play the role of a bridge
between our respective families and parents.
5. As we learn about each other’s habits,
personalities, and values, we should not criticize or try to change each other.
Instead, we should make judgments based on Scripture, pray for each other in
faith, and patiently wait with hope.
6. By letting go of what we want from each other
and learning what each other truly needs, we must dedicate ourselves to
fulfilling each other’s needs.
7. To avoid words or actions that may hurt one
another, we should desire the fruit of the Spirit, self-control. Rather than
focusing on what to say or do, we should diligently and humbly learn and
practice what words and actions should be avoided in our relationship.
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