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الفصل السادس: إخلاء «الرياء»

   الفصل السادس : إخلاء « الرياء »         رأينا فيما سبق كيف ينبغي لنا أن نخلي ذواتنا من الكبرياء الذي يدفع الإنسان إلى رفع نفسه فوق الله، ومن الطمع الذي لا يكتفي بالله بل يطلب باستمرار أن يمتلك المزيد . والآن ننتقل إلى خطية عميقة أخرى، هي « الرياء » . الرياء هو الرغبة في أن نظهر أمام الناس بصورة تختلف عن حقيقتنا . فهو أن نحمل في داخلنا أفكارًا ومشاعر معينة، بينما نتصرف في الخارج وكأننا لا نحملها، وأن نهتم بتقييم الناس لنا أكثر من اهتمامنا بنظر الله إلينا، فنزيّن إيماننا بحسب ما نريد أن يراه الآخرون . لذلك فإن إخلاء الذات من الرياء لا يبدأ بمحاولة الظهور أمام الناس كمسيحيين أفضل . بل يبدأ بأن ننظر إلى حقيقتنا أمام الله بكل صدق، من دون أن نخفي شيئًا . قد نستطيع أن نخدع الناس . وقد نستطيع، إلى حدّ ما، أن نتحكم في الصورة التي يراها الآخرون عنا . لكن لا ينفع أي قناع أمام الله، لأن الله لا يرى فقط ما يظهر ...

As I celebrate my beloved wife’s birthday …

As I celebrate my beloved wife’s birthday …

 

 

 

 

Today, as I celebrate my beloved wife’s birthday, I meditate on Proverbs 15 and apply and reflect on it to my wife and I:

 

1.      In a relationship between a couple, a gentle answer dispels anger, but harsh words stir up anger (see Proverbs 15:1).

 

2.      A wise husband seeks the knowledge of God and the knowledge of His will, and his lips speak of that knowledge kindly to his beloved wife, but a foolish husband does not do so; he enjoys foolishness and pours out foolishness (see Proverbs 15:2, 7, 14).

 

3.      In a marital relationship, gentle words are like a tree of life, but cruel words break a person's heart (see Proverbs 15:4).

 

4.      God delights in the prayers of an honest couple and loves a couple who pursues righteousness (see Proverbs 15:8, 9).

 

5.      A wise couple knows that they may be able to hide their thoughts from each other, but they cannot hide them from God (see Proverbs 15:11).

 

6.      A proud husband hates to be rebuked by his wife and does not seek out a wise wife (see Proverbs 15:12).

 

7.      A wife's cheerful heart brightens her face, but a husband's anxious heart hurts his spirit (see Proverbs 15:13).

 

8.      A couple who suffers is miserable, but a couple who has joy in their hearts is always happy (see Proverbs 15:15).

 

9.      A couple who is poor but fears God and serves Him together is better than a couple who is rich but always lives in worry (see Proverbs 15:17).

 

10.   A quick-tempered husband will cause quarrels, but a wife who is slow to get angry will calm them down (see Proverbs 15:18).

 

11.   The path of a lazy couple is like a field of thorns, while the path of an honest couple is like a highway (see Proverbs 15:19).

 

12.   . A wise wife makes her husband happy, but a foolish husband despises her (see Proverbs 15:20).

 

13.   An ignorant couple enjoys foolishness, but a wise couple walks the right path together (see Proverbs 15:21).

 

14.   A husband who gives wise advice makes a wife successful in her plans (see Proverbs 15:22).

 

15.   A wise couple gives each other timely words and answers, giving each other joy (see Proverbs 15:23).

 

16.   The thoughts of a pure-hearted couple please God (see Proverbs 15:26).

 

17.   A wise and honest couple who fear God do not seek ill-gotten gain and harm their family (see Proverbs 15:27).

 

18.   A righteous couple thinks carefully about what to say to each other, but a wicked couple spews out evil words to each other (see Proverbs 15:28).

 

19.   . A wise couple not only knows how to listen to each other’s good rebuke, but they also receive the rebuke with joy, and so they gain enlightenment (see Proverbs 15:31, 32).

 

20.   A couple who fears God gains wisdom, and so they are humble (see Proverbs 15:33).


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