"고난의 유익은 그 고난을 통하여 내가 하나님 보시기에 그릇행하였다는 것을 깨닫는 것과 하나님의 법을 배우게 된 것과 이제부터 하나님의 말씀을 지키게 된 것입니다(시 119:67, 71). 이러한 깨달음(나의 죄)과 배움(하나님의 말씀)과 지킴( 말씀 순종)이 없는 고난은 무익합니다." 1. 깨달음: 교만함(시119:69), 그릇 행함(67절), 마음의 살찜과 기름덩이(70절) [마음에 지방을 제거하라!: https://blog.naver.com/kdicaprio74/150112959844] 2. 배움: 자녀들의 위기를 통해 저는 선하신 주님께서(68절) 저를 선대하사(65절) 가르쳐주신(68절) 시편 63편 3절 말씀과 베드로전서 5장 10절 말씀을 배우게 되었습니다(71절). [20년 전 이 아빠의 품에 잠든 사랑하는 첫째 아기 주영이를 추모하면서 ... : https://blog.naver.com/kdicaprio74/221262767368] [금년 2019년 한 해를 영원히 과거로 보내기에 앞서 ...: https://blog.naver.com/kdicaprio74/221756284213] 3. 지킴: https://youtu.be/i6TfokavYN4?si=P1E4vvk_bnPOvabx
Lessons on family (2)
1. The family is a spiritual battlefield.
2. Satan is constantly attacking our families.
3. When there is discord in the marital
relationship, Satan can magnify even the smallest conflicts between husband and
wife, driving them to the brink of a marital crisis.
4. Husband and wife are bound to be different, and
the Lord intends for these differences to complement each other. However, Satan tries to make them compare
themselves with each other or with other "perfect" couples, leading
to dissatisfaction and complaints.
5. Satan encourages couples to magnify each other's
weaknesses while minimizing each other's strengths, making them overlook what
truly matters.
6. One of the husband's duties is to protect his
wife (and children) from the influence of both sides of the family. In particular, he must shield his family from
the idols, unbelief, unbiblical, and worldly views of his in-laws.
7. One of the wife's duties is to wisely honor her
husband in front of her parents, but she must not allow herself to be
manipulated, particularly by her mother.
8. One of the great duties of parents is to let go
of their married children. Parents who
are emotionally or psychologically unhealthy and still strongly connected to
their children must deliberately cut this bond for the sake of their children’s
marital relationship.
9. In many ways, sick parents can unknowingly harm
their children's hearts, minds, and emotions, and this unhealthy influence can
deeply affect the marital relationship, extending even to their grandchildren.
10. We must faithfully carry out family ministry,
guided by the Holy Spirit, with the confidence of victory, fighting against
Satan who attacks our families, as we believe in the Lord who has overcome
Satan. We must engage in a combative
family life, continually resisting Satan and fighting the spiritual battles.
(Thinking
of the people I have already met who are fighting a spiritual war through the
Internet Ministry in Korea in 2022)
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