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The Inseparable Love of God (1) [Romans 8:38-39]

The Inseparable Love of God (1) [ Romans 8:38-39 ] Why can nothing separate us from the love of God? 1. Because God’s love is eternal. Romans 8:29a says: “For those whom He foreknew…” The word “foreknew” refers to before eternity began —before the creation of heaven and earth . The phrase “those whom He foreknew” does not simply mean knowing about someone intellectually, but rather loving them. In other words, it refers to “those whom God loved from eternity past.” Amos 3:2a says: “You only have I known of all the families of the earth.” If “known” merely meant intellectual knowledge, that would imply that God only knew Israel and did not know the other nations—which cannot be true, because the all-knowing God lacks knowledge of nothing. Therefore, “I have known you only” means “I have loved you only.” God loved Israel among all the nations of the earth. Hosea 13:5 says: “I knew you in the wilderness , in the land of great drought.” The “wilderness” was where the Israelite...

감정적 방관 (Emotional neglect)

감정적 방관 (Emotional neglect) 




어릴 자라나면서 중요한 부모님(significant others)에게 입은 트라우마(trauma, 정신적 외상)는 우리로 하여금 나이가 들어서도 정신 장애인으로. 미래를 바라보며 현재를 살지 못하게 만들고 오히려 몸은 현재를 살면서 정신은 과거에 갇혀서 참된 자유을 누리지 못하며 살아가게 만들고 있습니다.   트라우마 중에 하나는 중요한 부모님(significant others)으로부터 감정적으로 방관(emotional neglect) 것입니다.  그리고 감정적 방관에는 부모님의 몸은 자녀와 함께 집에는 있지만 정신적으로나 감정적으로는 자녀와 함께 있는 것은 아닙니다(dissociation).

 

(H. Norman Weight "WHEN THE PAST WON'T LET YOU GO" 읽으면서)


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