After reading the article “How to Raise Healthy Children? Parents Must First Manage Their Own Emotions” ... As I read this article, I found myself drawn to several points that I wanted to reflect on more deeply: 1. First, I completely agree with the title of the article, “How to Raise Healthy Children? Parents Must First Manage Their Own Emotions.” Of course, as parents we must respect our children’s emotions, but before that, I believe our own emotions must first be healthy—healthy enough to be respected by our children. 2. I also agree with the statement that “the most important emotion parents must first learn to manage is anger.” The article says, “Anger has a destructive potential and is therefore an emotion that gets people into trouble, so we usually bury it. However, when buried, anger can explode inwardly as depression, guilt, anxiety , or shame —or outwardly as aggression.” I believe that if we as parents cannot restrain or regulate our anger in front of our childre...
고통의 물결이 끊임없이 우리에게 밀어닥치고 있을 때 ... 고통의 물결이 끊임없이 우리에게 밀어닥치고 있을 때 우리는 하나님께서 우리를 태풍 속에 던져 넣으셨다는 생각 속에서 우리의 마음은 번거로워 쉬지 못할 것입니다 . 그 때 우리는 이러 저리 넘어지므로 여기 저기 도와 달라고 부르짖을 것입니다 ( 참고 : 욥기 30:22, 27-28, 현대인의 성경 ). 그 때 어느 누구도 우리에게 도움을 주지 않을 때 우리는 무엇을 어떻게 해야 하는 것일까요 ? 이 찬송가 가사가 생각났습니다 : “ 나 주의 도움받고자 주 예수님께 빕니다 . 그 구원 허락 하시사 날 받아주소서 ”( 새 찬송가 214 장 , “ 나주의 도움받고자 ” 1 절 ).