After reading the article “How to Raise Healthy Children? Parents Must First Manage Their Own Emotions” ... As I read this article, I found myself drawn to several points that I wanted to reflect on more deeply: 1. First, I completely agree with the title of the article, “How to Raise Healthy Children? Parents Must First Manage Their Own Emotions.” Of course, as parents we must respect our children’s emotions, but before that, I believe our own emotions must first be healthy—healthy enough to be respected by our children. 2. I also agree with the statement that “the most important emotion parents must first learn to manage is anger.” The article says, “Anger has a destructive potential and is therefore an emotion that gets people into trouble, so we usually bury it. However, when buried, anger can explode inwardly as depression, guilt, anxiety , or shame —or outwardly as aggression.” I believe that if we as parents cannot restrain or regulate our anger in front of our childre...
경계해야할 사람과 함께 있지도 말아야 할 사람을 분별하여 분명하게 거절해야 합니다. 보디발의 아내가 건장하고 잘생긴 미남자였던 요셉에게 눈짓을 하며 함께 잠자리에 들자고 하면서 날마다 치근거렸지만 하나님을 경외하는 요셉은 자기가 어떻게 감시 이런 악한 짓을 하여 하나님께 범죄할 수 있느냐며 거절하며 그녀와 잠자리를 같이하지도 않고 그녀와 함께 있지도 않았습니다 ( 창세기 39:6-10, 현대인의 성경 ). 하나님을 경외하는 지혜로운 사람은 경계해야할 사람과 함께 있지도 말아야 할 사람을 분별합니다 . 그리고 분명하게 거절합니다 . 그러나 어리석은 자는 거절하지 못하고 함께 있다가 그녀의 유혹에 빠집니다 ( 참고 : 잠언 7:5-23, 현대인의 성경 ).